12 May 2013

elizabeth arden, red door!!!

i love my mom.

she's the best role model.  ever.

i hope to be as wonderful and as beautiful as she is...  

i had to write this essay the other day, nominating my mom for something.  we didn't win, but i don't think it was her fault!  she's amazing.  i thought i would share the essay with you...  there were things i left out, like when she drove me 8 hours to see a boy i liked.  or surprised me after thanksgiving.  she's been here with the birth of each of my kids.  and kept me sane through deployments.  she points me to God daily, and the example she set with her faith is paramount to my life.  i recall her, frequently, with her Bible open.  and i was just telling someone about a Bible study we did when i was in high school.  what a blessing!!!

before i do, i also want to mention my mother-in-law.  i am so thankful for her, because she raised a wonderful son.  i cannot imagine being married to a more wonderful man, and i am thankful for her influence on his life!  

I am nominating my mom, Kristin Presley, for the dream vacation.  She is my role model, my example, my best friend.  She raised four children to be successful, independent people.  She is a nurse by trade, but gave up her career to stay home and raise the four of us.  She was at every party, fixed every hurt, did lunchroom and recess duty.  There was never a doubt in my mind that she was my biggest cheerleader.  

Out of college, I joined the Navy to be a nurse (following in my mom's footsteps).  She made the transition easy.  Her phone calls and visits meant the world.  I got married to a Naval Officer and we started a family.  On one big military move, she drove with our (then) two kids and me to help us move in.  The house was a disaster.  I wanted to sit down and cry, but my mom took charge.  She cleaned the house from top to bottom.  By the time she left, four days later, the house was perfect.  

She flew out to Hawaii to help me say good-bye to my husband as he deployed.  She helped me fly my three kids back to Ohio so that we could spend some of the deployment with family.  And then, when it was time for my husband to come home, she came back to Hawaii and welcomed him back.  And then kept the kids so we could go away.

The military life is hard and can be lonely.  Friends come and go all the time.  Family doesn't usually live close.  The constant in my life and my kids lives is my mom.  She visits, she calls, she Facetimes.  She answers the phone, any time of day, knowing that I might just need to hear her voice.  Or a quick bit of advice.  I don't have to start over with her every time she moves.  She has been with me every step of the way, either in person or in spirit.

She raised four kids and knows how hard it is.  She did an awesome job.  As a mother of three, I understand better now how much she sacrificed over the years to take care of me (and how much she STILL sacrifices to take care of me!).  Words don't begin to express the gratitude I have for her love.  


10 May 2013

more beach day...

i love this... mid run!

and coming back for a kiss.  i love how his whole body is involved in this...

couldn't stop long enough for a good pic!

hmm...  should i go play by the waves?

nah... here is good!

she'd come to tattle on something.  and i had wanted a pic.  so i tried to get her to stop crying...   almost worked!

love this man.  seriously!  he gave up watching bball to take me to the beach!  cause it had been 10 days.  and i needed it!

he tried to escape.

but decided to come back...

we have had a crazy, busy few days.  my brother and sister and future sister in law graduate from college tomorrow.  i graduated 10 years ago.  hard to believe.  hard to not be with family.  but, it's MILITARY SPOUSE APPRECIATION DAY.  and it was our change of command ceremony today (one captain leaves, another takes over..)

military things always make me cry.  and i realized today, that i don't know how to do it different.  this is how i know life.  i don't know what it's like to think about having kids and not have to wonder if my husband will be around for the delivery.  if his ship will be on the other side of the world.  to plan vacations and know he'll never make it.  or wonder if this year, he might just get off.  to buy plane tickets and never be sure if we are going to have to pay change fees or cancel his at the last minute.  to wonder if we will spend another birthday/mother's day/anniversary/Christmas apart, or going in to the ship to dine with daddy there.  or to plan life around a ship pulling in or out.  to think about the next year and get anxious because there are only xxxx days left until he's gone again.  

but i also don't know what it's like to stay in one place.  to not have to rely on the new friends i just met to get me through bad days.  to have people that i BARELY know, but they know more about me than friends i have had for years.  i am so thankful for those ladies.  and so thankful for our life.  i wouldn't trade all the bad for a husband that came home every day.  or never left for months on end.  i love being a military spouse.

i love sitting at this change of command and watching all the pomp and circumstance.  and looking to my left and seeing the uss arizona memorial.  and the uss missouri (where they signed the treaty to end ww2).  and remembering all the wives that have gone before me.  and to hear them blow the whistle to bong the captain off and think about how many times they have done this over the years.  

it's a hard life.  but life is hard.  and i am thankful for this life.  and for my husband, who serves his country so wonderfully!  (and handsomely... but i know i am the only one that appreciates that!)

pics to come this weekend...

happy military spouse appreciation day!

08 May 2013

beach baby!!

sweet thing and his sunglasses.

check me out!

i am a rock star baby...

howzit?

okay, kid could PROBABLY stand a haircut...  but it only looks that way when he pulls it back like this!

silly boy.

concentration!

i love this kid.  we had so much fun at the beach yesterday.  d surprised me by getting home super early, so i made him take us to the beach (which was huge, cause he gave up a basketball game to do it!).  we had so much fun enjoying the afternoon...  

james has become a fish.  he's swimming pretty independently.  and enjoying it!  he lacks some confidence to match his skill, but he does a great job!  i am so proud.  



07 May 2013

silliness....

while taking some shots with my camera the other day, james asked for specific pics...

mad.

sad.

scared.

happy.

scrumpy.

and then there's this one.  this is his "cheese"

such a big boy, drinking his milk!

oh wait... cheese!!

the boys keep me on my toes.  they are so much fun.  i can't wait to see them as good friends.  

06 May 2013

fam photo shoot...

can you tell who doesn't like pics taken at random??

with is girl, it's all good!!!  

howzit brah?

shaka!

sweetest boy ever!

i love his face!

and then there's this one!!  he wasn't feeling great...

but perked up for some "cheeses".  (i have more fun ones with him later this week!)

we had a super fun weekend.  and a lot of family time.  and i won three giveaways last week.  it was a super good week for me!  one on a blog (thegrommom.com), one with our housing community, and one at a spouses event.  all little things, but they totally made my day!  

02 May 2013

shoes and fun...

chris learned how to say "shoes".  and, he loves putting them on.  just not keeping them on!

we made "ice cream in a bag!"

and watched our friends' daddy's ship deploy...

bye bye b.  hurry back...  

i have been doing a ton of sewing this week... finishing up some things, and trying to get some stuff ready for a craft fair in NE ohio.  so, if you are in NE ohio... i will post some more info soon, but my stuff will make a showing there!!!

01 May 2013

a little disney in our lives!!!

sweet (but very tired) kids...

my big boy... walking all around!

checking it all out...

the guests of honor...

chris was not super thrilled with the mouse.

nora loved twirling with minnie

mickey tried playing peek a boo...


our fam, with the mice...

james loved mickey!

the happy parents.

this week, there was a books on bases event.  disney brought a TON of books and the mice couple and we had a great afternoon.  we were at the officers club, on the water, and each kid came home with five books and a movie.  and there was storytime and crafts.  and of course, a meet and greet with minnie and mickey.  

we were all wiped at the end of the day (we left our house early that morning for church and lunch with friends, then went straight there), but it was so worth it.  

it was really cute to hear the kids talking about our last visit to disney world.  the things that even james remembered were so fun to hear about!  makes me look forward to our next trip!  and that they actually remember this stuff....